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16 May 2020

The Culture of Entitlement


There’s a disturbing trend in Nigeria that whilst some argue it's a growing one, I say it's one that is fairly long in the tooth, and quite frankly, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth - the trend I mean, not my consideration. The Entitlement Mentality.
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09 April 2020

Life in dissonance


They were here
We smiled at their arrival
And cried in their pains
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05 September 2019

No country for me (The refugee)




So it began hours before dawn,
I ran with nothing in my pocket, but for a sack to serve as blanket
Knowing not where I tread, for you see the moon shed not its glory
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24 December 2016

To change the world, change yourself. Merry Christmas world.



There exists so much negativity and hate in the world right now,  all it takes is turning on the news for one to be greeted by it in all it's glory.  That is not even the worse, what irks me is
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17 December 2016

Diary of the unmarried.


I sat out with my sister, keeping her company as she did her customary Saturday laundry and we got talking on here and there matters and then some about the wedding we are slated to attend the next weekend,
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17 October 2016

The injustice of jungle justice.



It perturbs me when i think despite the countless and near impossible feats man has accomplished, feats that have man flying (assisted flight mind you, though rumor has it un-assisted flight has been going down in Edo state since the early 80's) and orbiting outer space, despite these feats and many more, jungle justice is still prevalent  in my country. Even more perturbing is the fact that these people who have been lynching petty criminals since the 1900, are everyday people like you and i. I lay emphasis on petty because for the life of me, I have never heard of a corrupt politician being lynched in Nigeria, and i have been hearing of the Jungle brand of Justice since Senior Secondary and corrupt politicians since Junior. First case was that of a boy who was caught stealing NGN 20. Your eyes do not deceive you, yes, TWENTY NAIRA, and since then, not a year goes by that one does not stumble across a case or five of public lynching.

So recently, i got to thinking; (a) how have these lynchers survived centuries without opening their hearts to the civil way of doing things? Is there an SJJ (School of Jungle Justice) somewhere where they send their kids and the kids in time send their kids and so on and that's how they have kept up the family profession?  and (b) in the case of stealing, thievery is thievery and there is no excuse for it, but why target just the petty criminals? They do realize they are not doing the Justice department any favors by taking care of petty thieves? and (c) You have to be very broken inside to lynch someone and go about your business later on like it was another day at the park.



Sadly, I am acquainted with a lot of people who give Jungle Justice a nod. E.g Joan from work, who says we need to nip them in the bud before they grow into notorious criminals (i suspect Joan to be an alumni of the SJJ despite her Lasu acquired Bsc ). When i argue against such form of justice, the usual defense is "if only you know what these men are capable of doing or if you have ever been robbed or afraid for your life then you'll understand why it is necessary". Not so fun fact: i have been robbed before. My sister has been robbed and thrown out of a moving car. My brother has been threatened with a gun and robbed. My mom has been attacked and robbed yet we all maintain, public lynching is a little overkill (pun intended), especially not from people that have no moral right to carry them out.
Like I always tell people like her, even if i agree with that justification, that only accounts for 30% of lynch cases.

Not so tiny fact and something even much more perturbing, 70% of lynches are carried out on non criminals in Nigeria.

There have been cases where innocent individuals were lynched and their innocence only determined after the fact, were it either turned out to be a case of mistaken identity, individuals relying on the ignorance of many to square off a personal vendetta like in the case of that woman in Kano, an act of kindness gone wrong, dumb luck or bad case of pushing the envelope fashion-wise like the case of the girl that was lynched in a market place because she was dressed indecent like. Lets not forget the Alu 4 (God rest their souls).

I remember seeing two little girls one day picking up their processed millet (Akamu) that had fallen by the side of the road and were dusting off sand that had stuck on it to place back on their trays and sell, I approached and asked them why not just throw away the bad batches and they said if they don't sell it their mum was going to beat them. I asked them how much it cost, paid them and insisted they throw them away and go home. I am not trying to sell my self off as a saint, but i shudder to think that under different circumstances, some overzealous youth watching the conversation from afar and assumes I wanted to make away with those girls because I was giving them money and screams for the lynch party.I think of the pains those blows and sticks inflicted on these men, the torture of being burnt when you still have life in you, how we can't even stand the pain of accidentally holding a hot kettle. Think about it.

People need to learn to value human life. We need to empathize with people. We shouldn't condemn people to die by cruel and unjust means because they got caught in the act or are deemed unholy or unrighteous. What sets we that steal public funds, steal the petty cash entrusted in our care at work, lie, cheat, rape, oppress, bully etc apart from they who jungle justice is meted out to? Everyone accused of a crime deserves a fair legal hearing and all guilty of jungle justice must be made to bear the consequences. Because if they can look themselves in the mirror after carrying out such a heinous brand of justice on another human being, then believe it or not these men and women are potential threats to the public safety. Cheers.




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23 August 2016

Child abuse should not be an inconsequential menace to the Nigerian society.


Just to be clear, child abuse is not new. Social media has simply made us more aware of its presence on this side of the Atlantic. And for those who have always been aware of it but assume it the African way of grooming a child, to you i say hell Nein (German for no). Child abuse, no matter the way or form it is dressed up, is evil, not to mention inhumane.
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20 June 2016

Mankind is in desperate need of its brothers keeper.


Is it just me, or does everyone out there also enjoy reading individual opinions at the comments section on social media?
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24 May 2016

Chibok Girls: A tale of many shadows.


It was two years ago, 200 plus girls put a heretofore unknown town/LGA on the map. At this point, if you are Nigerian and the name “Chibok”
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30 April 2016

Why does it sometimes feel like God has a ton of prayers to sift through and it might take forever getting to yours?


Have you ever wanted something so bad but you get stuck between "how can I know if what I'm requesting is my will or God's?" or
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